THE Sign of a Cheating Partner

 

Most of the time, I'm not terribly impressed with articles that are something like: "private investigator says watch for THIS to see if your partner is cheating!" I find those article to be akin to pop psychology. Food for thought, but not much more.

I recently came across one of those articles titled, "Private Investigator says Guys Who are Cheating On Their Partners Do the Exact Same Giveaway." What was the giveaway? They wash their vehicle. Sorry to spoil that article for you.

While that's correct, and very common, it doesn't mean much in the abstract. If your partner regularly washes their car, then it probably doesn't mean anything.

In my experience, there is one thing that is an indicator above all else. What is that thing?

Change.

Yep. It's change. If your partner doesn't regularly wash their car, and all of a sudden it's getting done every week, then that's a big sign. Similarly, change is suspicious if it occurs in many areas of life, including:

• A New Look

• Availability/Unavailability

• Work/Travel Schedule

• Sex Frequency (going from a lot to a little, or vice versa)

• Phone Use (especially if there's a big rise in frequency of use and possessiveness of the phone

• Grooming/New Smells

• Attention paid to You

• New Friends

• Gym Frequency

These are examples. There may be more, but these are the big ones that I see.

As always, we're here to help. In addition to surveillance of partners currently suspected of cheating, no one else has the "Catfish Queen" to see if your partner is susceptible to temptation!

This post originally appeared on LinkedIn.